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Ep_26, Can God Still Use You After Divorce, Lessons from 2 Powerful Women of Faith

Summary: 
In this episode, we confront a common but painful belief: that divorce disqualifies someone from serving God. Many have been told that since God hates divorce, He can no longer use them. But today, we’ll explore the lives of two powerful women—Kathryn Kuhlman and Aimee Semple McPherson—who experienced divorce yet were mightily used by God. Their stories remind us that **God’s anointing and calling are not canceled by human mistakes.
Through their journeys, we’ll learn that God’s grace covers our failures and how His purposes for our lives remain, even when the world says otherwise.
 
Key Discussion Points:
Kathryn Kuhlman’s Journey:
   - Raised in Missouri with a passion for spreading the Gospel.
   - Founded the Denver Revival Tabernacle but faced public scandal after marrying Burroughs Waltrip, who divorced his wife to marry her.
   - After her marriage ended, Kathryn felt heartbroken and judged, but she experienced a deeper understanding of God’s grace.
   - Kathryn’s greatest ministry moments emerged **after her divorce, with miracles and healings marking her meetings.
Aimee Semple McPherson’s Triumph Through Scandal
   - Born in Canada, Aimee was a pioneering evangelist, traveling with her first husband as a missionary.
   - Despite **two divorces** and several public scandals, Aimee founded the **Four Square Gospel Church** and built the Angelus Temple in Los Angeles.
   - Her story highlights that **God can use people even when their personal lives are messy**. She revolutionized evangelism through radio and drama, impacting thousands.
Lessons From Their Lives
   - **Romans 11:29** reminds us that "God’s gifts and His call are irrevocable."
   - Both women faced **public judgment** but continued ministering with powerful anointing.
   - God's anointing is given **for the benefit of others**, not just for the minister.
 
Key Quotes:
- Kathryn Kuhlman: *“It’s a thousand times easier to die physically than to keep on living. You see, the Lord forgives, but people don’t.”*
- “God’s anointing flows through broken vessels.”
If you’ve gone through a divorce and feel disqualified, this episode is for you. **God’s grace is greater than any failure**, and His calling remains on your life. Offer your brokenness to Him and watch Him transform it into something beautiful.
 
Thank you for listening!
If this episode blessed you, share it with someone who needs encouragement. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. You are not disqualified—you are redeemed and called.
 
You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com. 
 
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 
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Ep 25, Healing After Divorce, Letting Go of Revenge and Embracing God's Justice

Summary: 
In today’s episode, we respond to a heartfelt email from a listener named Angela, who is grappling with the pain and betrayal caused by her ex-husband. Angela asks, “When will the Lord bring justice for all the pain my ex-husband caused me?” This question resonates deeply with many who struggle with injustices experienced during divorce, especially when lies and deception leave lingering wounds. 
 
We explore the challenge between desiring justice and trusting God's timing. While betrayal hurts, we discuss how God’s justice may not always align with our timeline or expectations. We reflect on the challenge of surrendering our right to vengeance and trusting that God will expose what needs to be revealed in His perfect way. 
Key Takeaways:
Justice on God's Timeline: The justice we seek may not happen immediately, but God promises that every hidden thing will be brought to light (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).
Letting Go of Revenge: It’s not our role to expose the sins of others publicly; instead, we must trust God to reveal the truth in His time (Romans 12:19).
God's Grace for All: God's mercy extends not only to us but also to those who hurt us, which can be difficult to accept but essential for healing.
Confession with Caution: While sharing our pain is important, it should be done with trusted individuals who can hold space for our emotions and encourage us to release the burden at the cross.
Words Matter: The power of our words over ourselves and others should align with God's truth, fostering healing rather than bitterness.
Encouragement:
When the desire for justice feels overwhelming, remember that God sees every wound and betrayal. His justice brings not only correction but also redemption and healing. Trusting Him requires surrendering your pain and allowing His perfect will to unfold.
 
If you’ve struggled with betrayal or the desire for justice, we’d love to hear your story. Send us your questions or thoughts at [your contact info]. Don't forget to share this episode with anyone who might need encouragement today. 
SCRIPTURES:
Ecclesiastes 8:11-13, New International Version
Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 New International Version
Isaiah 30:18
Isaiah 61:8
Romans 12:19 New International Version
Mark 4:22
Daniel 2:22
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Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.
 
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Ep 24, Coping with Post Divorce Depression and 8 Ways to Reclaim Your Life

Episode Overview:
 
In this episode of the *Rise & Reclaim After Divorce* podcast, we dive deep into the emotional toll of divorce, particularly the sadness and depression that often follow. I share my personal journey of battling emptiness and depression after my divorce and discuss the importance of turning to God during this difficult season. We explore practical ways to cope with these feelings, including grieving, seeking community, and relying on God’s Word to heal and restore our hearts. If you're navigating life after divorce and struggling with sadness or depression, this episode is for you.
 
 
Key Points Discussed:
 
Personal Story: How I navigated post-divorce depression, emotional exhaustion, and emptiness.
Post-Divorce Depression: What it is and how it can impact various areas of life including self-esteem, relationships, and daily routines.
Symptoms of Post-Divorce Sadness and Depression: From persistent sadness, social withdrawal, mood swings, to disrupted sleep patterns.
8 Practical Ways to Cope: Including the importance of grieving, seeking community, trying new hobbies, and speaking God’s Word over your life.
Faith as a Key to Healing: How leaning into prayer, scripture, and worship can restore your soul and help you combat negative thoughts.
 
SCRIPTURES:
Isaiah 12
Psalm 34:17-18
Jeremiah 29:11
Philippians 4:8
 
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#DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth
 
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You Are The Fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 

Ep 23, Healing from Divorce, How to Process and Let Go of Anger, Part 2

Episode Description:
 
Are you struggling with anger and rage after a divorce? This is part 2 with our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve deeper into how to handle our anger. We also talk about anger turned inward and depression. You are not alone in your journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.
 
Guest Bio:
 
Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.
 
A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.
Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.
 
Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.
 
Toni's Special Offer:
Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."
 
Toni Thrash
t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com
214-277-9846
https://www.instagram.com/tonithrash
https://www.ToniThrash.com
 
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 
You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com. 
 
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Ep 22, Healing from Divorce, How to Process and Let Go of Anger, Part 1

Episode Description:
 
Are you struggling with anger and rage after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.
 
Guest Bio:
 
Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.
 
A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.
Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.
 
Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.
 
Toni's Special Offer:
Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."
 
Toni Thrash
t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com
214-277-9846
https://www.instagram.com/tonithrash
https://www.ToniThrash.com
 
You can email me at: Dana@redeemed-identity.com. 
 
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 
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Hello everone!
In this episode of *Rise and Reclaim After Divorce*, I continue my discussion with Toni about stepping into freedom from judgement in the church. If you haven't yet, I encourage you to listen to episode 20 which is part 1 of this topic. 
Episode Highlights:
- Facing Judgment in the Church as Divorced Christians: 
  Divorce often carries a stigma, especially in church communities. In this episode, I talk about how I processed through the feelings of disqualification and judgment from the church. We discuss the importance of understanding your identity in Christ and overcoming the negative self-talk that often accompanies judgment.
 
- Steps to Overcome Judgementalism and Reclaim Your Destiny: 
  We outline key steps to reclaim your identity and step into your calling:
  - Know Who You Are in Christ: 
    It’s crucial to dispel the negative talk in your own head by reminding yourself of who and WHOSE you are. I share my journey of realizing my true identity in Christ after my divorce.
  - Educate Yourself on What the Word Says About Divorce:
    The Bible has much to say about divorce, and understanding the truth can bring healing. Recommended resources include, The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good and *Divorce: God's Will?* by Stephen Gola.
  - Surround Yourself with Supportive People: 
    We discuss the importance of having people around you who can help you rediscover your identity, pouring truth into you during challenging times.
  - Seek Therapy or Life Coaching:
    A therapist or life coach can help you sift through lies and find the truth, which is a key step in healing and growth.
  - Walking as a Child of God:
    Once you fully know who you are, you can walk confidently as a child of God, no longer defined by past mistakes or societal judgments.
  - Pray the Word of God Over Yourself Daily:
    Continual prayer and speaking God's promises over yourself are powerful tools to maintain spiritual strength.
 
  - Prophetic Words and Encouragement:
    Use prophetic words and scriptures, like 1 Timothy 1:18-19, to encourage yourself as you fight the good fight of faith.
 
- My Journey to Accepting My Calling:
  We talk about how I was initially resistant to the idea of starting a podcast, but God’s calling continued to press on my heart. Through obedience and "learning to build my wings on the way down," I chose to step into my calling. Even now, I'm actively walking in obedience to God, not man.
 
- Healing Before Ministry: 
  We also touch on the importance of healing before stepping into ministry. If there are areas of disobedience or unresolved issues from your divorce, it’s crucial to seek repentance and healing before stepping into something big. Ministry should never be entered into without first ensuring that your heart is healed and prepared.
 
Join me and Toni in this candid conversation as we encourage those who have experienced divorce to rise up and reclaim their God-given destinies!
 
Blessings,
Dana
 
Scripture Reference:
1 Timothy 1:18-19 (NKJV) 
*Fight the Good Fight* 
"This charge I commit to you, son Timothy, according to the prophecies previously made concerning you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, having faith and a good conscience."
 
Recommended Reading:
- The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good 
- Divorce: God's Will? The Truth of Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible for Christians by Stephen Gola

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Hello everone!
 
In this episode of *Rise and Reclaim After Divorce*, I share a special interview where I was featured on *Start Your Comeback*, hosted by Toni Thrash. Toni graciously allowed me to share this conversation with my listeners as we dive deep into the topic of facing judgmentalism in the church and Christian circles as divorced Christians.
 
Episode Highlights:
 
- Facing Judgment in the Church as Divorced Christians: 
  Divorce often carries a stigma, especially in church communities. In this episode, I talk about how I processed through the feelings of disqualification and judgment from the church. We discuss the importance of understanding your identity in Christ and overcoming the negative self-talk that often accompanies judgment.
 
- Steps to Overcome Judgementalism and Reclaim Your Destiny: 
  We outline key steps to reclaim your identity and step into your calling:
  - Know Who You Are in Christ: 
    It’s crucial to dispel the negative talk in your own head by reminding yourself of who and WHOSE you are. I share my journey of realizing my true identity in Christ after my divorce.
  - Educate Yourself on What the Word Says About Divorce:
    The Bible has much to say about divorce, and understanding the truth can bring healing. Recommended resources include, The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good and *Divorce: God's Will?* by Stephen Gola.
  - Surround Yourself with Supportive People: 
    We discuss the importance of having people around you who can help you rediscover your identity, pouring truth into you during challenging times.
  - Seek Therapy or Life Coaching:
    A therapist or life coach can help you sift through lies and find the truth, which is a key step in healing and growth.
  - Walking as a Child of God:
    Once you fully know who you are, you can walk confidently as a child of God, no longer defined by past mistakes or societal judgments.
  - Pray the Word of God Over Yourself Daily:
    Continual prayer and speaking God's promises over yourself are powerful tools to maintain spiritual strength.
 
  - Prophetic Words and Encouragement:
    Use prophetic words and scriptures, like 1 Timothy 1:18-19, to encourage yourself as you fight the good fight of faith.
 
- My Journey to Accepting My Calling:
  We talk about how I was initially resistant to the idea of starting a podcast, but God’s calling continued to press on my heart. Through obedience and "learning to build my wings on the way down," I chose to step into my calling. Even now, I'm actively walking in obedience to God, not man.
 
- Healing Before Ministry: 
  We also touch on the importance of healing before stepping into ministry. If there are areas of disobedience or unresolved issues from your divorce, it’s crucial to seek repentance and healing before stepping into something big. Ministry should never be entered into without first ensuring that your heart is healed and prepared.
 
Join me and Toni in this candid conversation as we encourage those who have experienced divorce to rise up and reclaim their God-given destinies!
 
Blessings,
Dana
 
Scripture Reference:
1 Timothy 1:18-19 (NKJV) 
*Fight the Good Fight* 
"This charge I commit to you, son Timothy, according to the prophecies previously made concerning you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, having faith and a good conscience."
 
 
 
Recommended Reading:
- The Divorced Christian by Pastor Darius Good 
- Divorce: God's Will? The Truth of Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible for Christians by Stephen Gola

Ep 19 The Surprising Truth Behind Unforgiveness and Six Strategies to Help You Let Go.mp3

Hi Everyone!
 
In this episode, we explore the serious consequences of harboring unforgiveness. While unforgiveness is often seen as a justified response to hurt or betrayal, it is a destructive force that can affect your physical health, mental well-being, and spiritual life. We delve into how unforgiveness can manifest in chronic health issues, emotional disturbances, and spiritual disconnection. We also discuss the transformative power of forgiveness, guided by Scripture, and how it leads to healing and freedom.
 
Key Points:
The Nature of Unforgiveness:
   - Unforgiveness is not just a psychological state but a spiritual condition that distances us from God.
   - Holding onto anger and resentment traps us in a cycle of negative emotions with far-reaching consequences.
 
Impact on Physical Health:
   - Unforgiveness triggers the body's stress response, leading to chronic health issues such as high blood pressure, weakened immune function, and increased risk of heart disease and diabetes.
   - Personal testimony: Childhood stress from abuse led to lifelong gut issues and chronic health problems, even after forgiving the offender.
 
Impact on Mental Health:
   - Unforgiveness can contribute to mental health disorders like depression and anxiety, trapping the mind in a negative loop.
   - Continuous rumination over past hurts prevents joy, peace, and contentment.
 
Impact on Spiritual Life:
   - Unforgiveness creates a barrier between us and God, hindering spiritual growth and answered prayers.
   - Key Scriptures:
     - *Matthew 6:12, 14-15 (ESV)* - Forgiveness is essential for receiving God's forgiveness.
     - *Matthew 18:21-35 (ESV)* - Parable of the Unforgiving Servant emphasizes the severity of unforgiveness.
     - *Ephesians 4:31-32 (ESV)* - Paul urges believers to let go of bitterness and embody forgiveness.
 
The Power of Forgiveness:
   - Forgiveness leads to physical healing, mental peace, and spiritual freedom.
   - Key Scriptures:
     - *Romans 3:23 (ESV)* - We all need God's grace.
     - *Colossians 3:13 (NIV)* - Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
     - *Luke 23:34 (ESV)* - Jesus' example of forgiveness on the cross.
 
The Role of the Holy Spirit:
   - The Holy Spirit empowers believers to forgive, even when it seems impossible.
   - Key Scripture:
     - *Galatians 5:22-23 (ESV)* - The fruit of the Spirit includes qualities crucial for forgiveness.
     - *Philippians 4:13 (ESV)* - "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me," including forgiveness.
 
Practical Steps to Embrace Forgiveness:
   - Acknowledge the pain.
   - Seek God's help.
   - Release the debt.
   - Practice empathy.
   - Let go of resentment.
   - Focus on God's forgiveness.
 
Conclusion:
Unforgiveness has severe consequences for both the body and soul, but through forgiveness, we can experience healing and freedom. With the Holy Spirit's help, we can overcome the pain and walk in the footsteps of Christ, embodying His love in the world.
 
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 
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Ep 18, The Hidden Impact of Offense with God on Your Faith Journey.mp3

Hi everyone!
 
In this deeply personal episode, I explore the often hidden and rarely discussed topic of being offended with God. Through my personal story of spiritual wandering and eventual divine revelation, we delve into the impact of harboring offense, especially when it’s directed toward God. If you’ve ever felt abandoned, disappointed, or hurt by unmet expectations in your faith journey, this episode is for you.
 
Key Takeaways:
The Silent Struggle: Discover how unresolved pain and lost dreams can lead to a spiritual desert, where we find ourselves lost and distant from God.
Naming the Offense:Learn about the importance of recognizing when our true source of pain and anger is directed towards God, even when it’s hard to admit.
The Invisible Prison: Understand how offense can grow unnoticed, much like a hidden illness, affecting our spiritual health and relationship with God.
Divine Revelation: Hear about the moment of awakening, where the realization of personal responsibility in harboring offense against God begins the healing process.
The Path to Healing: Explore the steps of acknowledging, forgiving, and inviting God into the deep wounds of the heart for true spiritual healing.
Seeing God’s Heart: Shift your perspective from what God does to who He is, allowing for a deeper and more intimate connection with Him.
 
Related Scripture:
 
Ephesians 4:31-32Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
 
Numbers 14:18
"The LORD is slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, forgiving iniquity and transgression, but he will by no means clear the guilty.”
 
Psalm 103:10–12
"He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities". 
 
Psalm 86:5
"You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you". 
 
Daniel 9:9
"The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him". 
 
1 John 1:9
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
 
Discussion Questions:
Have you ever found yourself offended with God? How did it impact your faith journey?
What steps can you take to begin the process of forgiving God and healing from past hurts?
How can changing your perspective from what God does to who God is affect your faith and relationship with Him?
 
Resources Mentioned:
- *My Utmost for His Highest* by Oswald Chambers
 
If this episode resonated with you, take some time this week to reflect on any hidden offenses you might be holding against God. Journal your thoughts, pray for revelation, and ask God to heal those deep wounds. Don’t forget to share this episode with someone who might benefit from hearing this message.
 
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Connect with Us:
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- Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce   Podcast ( https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)
 
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Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #healingfromdivorce #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

Ep 17, When Forgiveness Feels Impossible; Finding Strength in Deep Pain.mp3

Hello everyone!
 
In this episode, we delve into the deep and often challenging topic of forgiveness, particularly when it feels too painful to even consider. We explore the idea of unforgiveness as a "Certificate of Offense," a metaphorical document that binds us in a covenant relationship with our hurt and resentment. Just as a marriage certificate symbolizes a profound and intimate bond, this certificate of offense represents the intimate connection we form with unforgiveness, granting it authority over our souls.
 
Key Points Covered:
 
- Understanding Covenant Agreements:
   - In biblical terms, a covenant is a solemn agreement between God and humanity, establishing the foundation of a relationship, its conditions, and the consequences of not fulfilling those conditions.
   - Similarly, unforgiveness forms a covenant with our hearts, giving it the power to influence and affect us deeply.
 
- The Effects of Unforgiveness:
   - Unforgiveness acts as a wall that can hinder your spiritual journey and calling, much like a marathon runner with a sprained ankle. While you may still move forward, it is painful, slow, and far less effective.
   - This relationship with unforgiveness also brings bitterness into our lives, the only source of sustenance behind the wall we build. Bitterness, in turn, further poisons our spirit and distances us from healing and peace.
 
- Dispelling Misconceptions About Forgiveness:
   - Forgiveness is not trust: You can choose to forgive someone without restoring trust immediately.
   - Reconciliation is not trust: Reconciliation and trust are distinct; one can occur without the other.
   - Forgiveness does not mean friendship: The Bible does not mandate maintaining friendships with those who have hurt us.
   - Forgiveness does not mean their repentance: Forgiveness is about relinquishing your right to seek vengeance, not about the offender’s repentance.
- The True Meaning of Forgiveness:
   - Forgiveness is about handing over your pain and the right to retribution to God. It’s not about forgetting or excusing the offense, but about releasing yourself from the chains of bitterness and letting God take over the burden.
 
Call to Action:
If you’re struggling with unforgiveness, consider taking a moment to reflect on how it might be affecting your life and spiritual journey. Join us as we discuss ways to bring your "Certificate of Offense" to the footstool of God, and find freedom in true forgiveness.
 
Forgiveness may feel impossible, especially when the wounds are deep, but it’s a journey worth taking. Remember, forgiveness is a choice—a choice to trust God with your pain and to allow Him to heal your heart.
 
Blessings,
Dana
 
RESOURCES IN TODAY’S EPISODE:
Lysa Terkeurst’s, Founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries website: https://lysaterkeurst.com/about-lysa/
 
Ephesians 4:31-32
“Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God I Christ forgave you.
 Colossians 3:13
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Matthew 6:14-15
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
Mark 11:25
"And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins."
 
Deut 32:35:
Vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord.
2 Thess 1:6
God is just: He will pay back trouble to those who trouble you.
Rom 12:19
Do not take revenge, but leave room for God’s wrath for it is written “it is mine to avenge. I will repay, says the Lord.
 
Join Us:
Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.
 
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