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Ep 78, Your Truth vs. God’s Truth: How Pain After Divorce Delays Healing

Pain has a way of reshaping how we see the world—especially after divorce. In this episode, we explore how living from pain instead of God’s truth can quietly delay healing, purpose, and forward movement.
Using Matthew 28 and the story of the women at the tomb, we unpack how grief distorted their expectations—and how we often do the same thing when we’ve been wounded. They came prepared to bury what they believed was dead, unaware that resurrection had already happened.
If you’ve been navigating life with a broken compass—led by emotions, fear, or past experiences—this episode will help reorient you back to true north: the Word of God.
This is a call to stop carrying spices for what God has already promised to raise, to trust that the stone has already been rolled away, and to step into healing with faith instead of fear.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
The difference between your truth and God’s truth
Why pain can distort perspective and delay purpose
How the women at the tomb forgot Jesus’ promise—and how we often do the same
What it means to stop praying only from pain and start praying with expectation
Why emotions make a terrible compass after divorce
How God is already working on obstacles you’re still worrying about
The danger of carrying “grave clothes” into your future
How to leave the past at the foot of the cross and press forward
Key Scriptures Referenced:
Matthew 28:1–8 – The women at the tomb and the rolled-away stone
Hebrews 11:1 – Faith as the substance of things hoped for
Isaiah 65:24 – God answering before we even call
Philippians 3:13–14 – Forgetting what is behind and pressing forward
Psalm 91:1 – Dwelling in the shelter of the Most High
Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
Hebrews 13:5 – God will never leave or forsake you
Reflection Questions:
Are you living by God’s truth—or by pain-shaped emotions?
What are you still carrying spices for that God has already promised to raise?
Are you focused on past hurt so much that you’re missing future purpose?
What truth will you take into your next season?
Call to Action:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be stuck between pain and purpose. And remember—resurrection isn’t something you earn. It’s something you receive when you trust His truth over yours.
 
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
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Ep 79, A Statement from Redeemed-Identity Ministries

In response to the aftermath of a situation involving a recent guest, Redeemed-Identity Ministries and Redeemed Identity After Divorce needs to make a public statement:
"
At Redeemed-Identity Ministries and on the Redeemed Identity After Divorce podcast and YouTube channel, we want to be very clear about our heart and values.
We do not support racism, violence, or harm of any kind toward another person. Period.
This platform exists to host faith-based conversations focused on healing, growth, and redemption after divorce. While we occasionally welcome guests to share their stories or perspectives, we are not involved in — nor are we commenting on — any personal, legal, or interpersonal matters involving our guests outside of the conversations that take place on our platform.
We also want to state clearly that harassment, threats, or hateful behavior toward anyone connected to our ministry will not be tolerated.
We remain committed to creating a space rooted in faith, truth, and dignity for all people. This platform and all associated platforms are here to educate, encourage and bring healing to those wounded by divorce."
In Service,
Dana

Ep 76, Mad at God? You’re Not Alone: Finding Freedom After Divorce with Janis Dennis

Guest: Mrs. Janis (J.D.) DenisBook: Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1
 
Episode Overview
Have you ever been mad at God in the middle of—or after—your divorce? Have you wrestled with forgiveness and wondered why it feels so painfully hard?
If so, this episode is for you. ☕ Grab your favorite beverage and settle in for a raw, honest, and deeply healing conversation.
In Episode 76 of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana sits down with author, speaker, and worship leader Mrs. Janis Denis to talk about real faith for real pain. Janis doesn’t sugarcoat the journey—she shares honestly about anger toward God, feeling abandoned after divorce, and the long road toward forgiveness and freedom.
About Today’s Guest
Mrs. Janis Denis (often known as J.D. Denis) is the author of Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1. She is a powerful speaker, worship leader, and storyteller who uses real language to talk about real-life heartbreak—and the radical love of God that meets us right there.
Dana introduces Janis by reading the back of her book because, honestly, you can’t improve on perfection.
What We Cover in This Episode
Conversation Highlights
Radically Loved by GodJanis shares when she first truly “got it”—the moment she realized just how radically loved she is by God.
The Story Behind the Words (Pages 8–9)Dana reads a powerful section from the book and Janis opens up about the deep, personal story behind those words.
A special focus on the closing paragraph of the chapter (page 11) and why it matters so much.
“Sometimes I Get Mad at God” (Chapter 3, Page 13)Janis speaks candidly about the aftermath of her divorce—feeling abandoned, unattractive, useless, and worthless—and being angry with God.
How she rose above that season
What helped her rebuild her faith and identity
Why Forgiveness Is So Freaking Hard (Chapter 12)Dana reads a powerful excerpt that many listeners will deeply relate to.
What prompted Janis to write this devotional
How forgiveness became a process—not a performance
Finding real freedom after deep betrayal
Key Takeaways
God can handle your anger, questions, and tears
Feeling broken doesn’t mean you’re faithless
Forgiveness is hard—but freedom is possible
Healing begins when we stop pretending and start telling the truth
Where you can connect with Janis and her book:
Website: https://linktr.ee/jdennis8?utm_source=linktree_profile_share
Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/hwmKXok
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/kSwQFCNAfdE
 
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If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope today.
About the Podcast
Rise & Reclaim After Divorce helps you re-member who you are after divorce—faith, identity, healing, and hope included.
In His Service,
 
Dana
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Ep 73, Preparing Yourself for the Holidays After Divorce

The holidays can stir up all kinds of emotions after divorce — loneliness, pressure, old memories, and moments that hit way harder than expected. In this episode, Dana gets real about what this season can feel like… and how God meets us right in the middle of it.
She walks you through the “rebuilding bricks” God gave her over the last few years, how those words held her steady when circumstances didn’t, and why intentionally redirecting the mind is a powerful part of healing. You’ll also hear how the valley of dry bones in Ezekiel isn’t just a dramatic Bible moment — it’s a picture of what happens when we speak God’s truth over situations that look completely lifeless.
Dana also shares new research on gratitude and how it literally transforms the brain — from boosting dopamine and serotonin to calming emotional triggers and helping you shift your perspective. It’s wild how God designed us to heal from the inside out.
If you remember Episode 33, this episode builds on that foundation of praying Scripture out loud and watching the atmosphere change. Dana ties it all together for this holiday season, reminding you that you don’t have to pretend things aren’t hard — but you can choose what you cling to.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why redirecting your thoughts is both simple and hard — and why it matters
How gratitude rewires your brain (yes, literally)
What Ezekiel’s dry bones teach us about speaking life over impossible situations
How the Word of God becomes your anchor when emotions try to run the show
Ways to prepare your heart for the holidays after divorce without shutting down emotionally
Listen in if you need:
Hope for the holiday season
A reminder of God’s faithfulness
Practical tools to calm your mind and emotions
A nudge to speak life over the places that feel dry or heavy
Encouragement to believe again — even in a tough season
Resources Mentioned:
Episode 33: How Praying the Word Shifts Your Atmosphere
Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce — available on Dana’s website
Scriptures:Ezekiel 37:4–5, Hebrews 4:12
If this episode encourages you, share it with a friend who’s navigating a hard holiday season. You never know who needs a reminder that God rebuilds, restores, and breathes life into what feels lost.
 
In Service to Him,
Dana
 
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Healing After Divorce ebook
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Ep 72: How God Builds a Well Out of the Very Pit Divorce Pushed You Into

In today’s episode, we’re talking about something simple, steady, and powerful: how to build a prayer focus after divorce, one word at a time—just like laying bricks on a wall.
For years, the Lord has given me one or two “focus words” each year, along with scriptures that anchor my prayers. What I didn’t realize until recently was how each word built on the last… and how God was quietly rebuilding my life brick by brick.
In this episode, I’m walking you through my yearly “bricks” from 2020 to now—Hope, Endurance, Rebuilding, Transition, Focus, Shepherding, Obedience, and more—and showing you how this simple practice became a blueprint for healing after divorce.
Inside this episode:
Why we’re seeing so much shaking in the world—and why righteousness comes before revival
How yearly “focus words” create a stable prayer foundation
The scriptures God used to rebuild me over the last five years
How to receive your own word for the coming year
A prayer over your healing and your future
In His Service,
Dana
Mentioned in this episode:🎥 Redeemed Identity After Divorce on YouTube🌐 www.redeemed-identity.com📩 Email: Dana@redeemed-identity.com
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If this episode blessed you, please leave a review—it helps other divorced believers find hope, community, and restoration.

Ep 71, When Pain Becomes Your Armor After Divorce

Have you ever realized that the pain you carry might be protecting you—but also holding you back? In this episode, Dana dives into how unresolved hurt can become armor, keeping us from fully embracing God’s love and grace. Drawing from personal experiences with judgment, gossip, and navigating post-divorce relationships, Dana shares how the Lord revealed hidden wounds, guided her to Isaiah 50:4-7, and showed her how to replace painful armor with a banner of His love.
Learn practical ways to:
Recognize where pain has become a defense mechanism in your life.
Release offense and judgment from others.
Stand strong in God’s grace and truth, even when others’ words sting.
Cover yourself and others with God’s love instead of armor.
If you’ve been carrying pain as a shield, this episode is a gentle, powerful reminder that God’s love heals, restores, and transforms.
We are the fragrance of Christ,
Dana
Scriptures Referenced:
Isaiah 50:4-7
2 Timothy 2
Song of Solomon 2:4
Psalm 139:23-24
1 Peter 4:8
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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf
 
Amazon:
Healing After Divorce Paperback:
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Healing After Divorce ebook
https://a.co/d/etcpVyR
 
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PODCAST:
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Ep 70, When Rejection Hurts, But You are STILL God's Chosen

Keywords: healing after divorce, rejection and faith, identity in Christ, overcoming rejection, redeemed identity, Christian encouragement
Rejection stings. It makes you question your worth, your calling, even your place in God’s story. But what if the feelings of rejection and abandonment aren’t who you are — because that version of you died with Christ?
In this episode of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana unpacks the truth that Jesus didn’t just purchase your salvation — He purchased your identity. The cross wasn’t only about forgiveness; it was about freedom.
Through powerful scripture (Galatians 2:20, 1 Corinthians 7:23, and more) and a deeply personal revelation, Dana reminds you that your name was written on that cross. Every lie of rejection and insecurity was nailed there too.
It’s time to stop living from rejection and start living from redemption. You are chosen. You are enough. You are His.
🎧 Listen now to rediscover your worth and walk in the identity Jesus already paid for.
 
We are the Fragrance of Christ,
Dana
 
👉WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com
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Amazon:
Healing After Divorce Paperback:
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Healing After Divorce ebook
https://a.co/d/etcpVyR
 
WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:
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Ep 69, When Rejection and Loneliness Hit After Divorce, How To Find God's Comfort and Strength

Have you ever been blindsided by rejection or loneliness long after you thought you’d healed? In this vulnerable episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, Dana shares a deeply personal story about how an unexpected moment reopened old wounds — and how God used His Word to bring lasting comfort and truth.
You’ll hear how Psalm 73 became a lifeline, why rejection and loneliness often resurface even years after divorce, and how to anchor your identity in Christ when human validation falls short.
If you’ve struggled with loneliness, singleness, or feeling forgotten, this episode will help you remember who truly holds your heart.
Key Topics:
Healing from rejection and loneliness after divorce
Finding encouragement in God’s Word (Psalm 73:23–26)
Understanding emotional roots through faith
Restoring identity and confidence in Christ
Christian encouragement for divorced and single believers
Keywords:Christian encouragement, divorce recovery, overcoming rejection, healing after divorce, loneliness and faith, identity in Christ, Christian podcast, emotional healing, spiritual growth, Psalm 73, Redeemed Identity, Rise and Reclaim After Divorce
 
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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf
 
Amazon:
Healing After Divorce ebook
https://a.co/d/etcpVyR
Healing After Divorce Paperback:
https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp
 
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PODCAST:
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Ep 68, The Hidden Power of Soul Ties, Part 2 with Pastor Darius Good

In part 2 of The Hidden Power of Soul Ties, Dana Williams continues with Pastor Darius Good, author of Soul Ties: How to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties.
Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak.
You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process.
If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free.
Connect with Pastor Darius:
www.dariusgood.com
Get his book on Amazon! https://a.co/d/7wlbr3F
 
Connect with Dana
Website: www.redeemed-identity.com
 
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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf
Amazon:
 
Healing After Divorce ebook
https://a.co/d/etcpVyR
 
Healing After Divorce Paperback:
https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp
 
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Ep 67, The Hidden Power of Soul Ties with Pastor Darius Good

to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties.
Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak.
You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process.
If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free.
 
Blessings,
Dana
 
Pastor Darius Good's book Soul Ties: https://a.co/d/67di5Nu
Pastor Darius Good website: www.dariusgood.com
 
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Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf
 
Amazon:
Healing After Divorce ebook
https://a.co/d/etcpVyR
Healing After Divorce Paperback:
https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp
 
PODCAST:
 
APPLE: REDEEMED IDENTITY AFTER DIVORCE
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Keywords: soul ties, intimacy, toxic relationships, emotional healing after divorce, breaking soul ties, divorce recovery, spiritual connections, counseling, divorced christian